
BPA Family Law
Divorce & Separation: Honest Guidance, Local Attorneys & Real Support When It Matters Most.
Divorce isn’t just paperwork. It can represent a major shift in life circumstances; the end of something familiar and the beginning of something uncertain. And while the legal process can seem overwhelming, you don’t have to face it alone. BPA Family Law helps individuals across the United States find trusted, licenced divorce attorneys with fantastic track records and a deep understanding of your state’s unique family law statutes.
Whether you’re the one initiating the process or responding to unexpected changes, the attorney you choose can make all the difference. Our goal is to connect you quickly with someone who listens, explains your options clearly, and walks you through every legal and financial aspect of separation or divorce with empathy and compassion.
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What Is an Order of Protection?
An Order of Protection (sometimes called a restraining order or protective order, depending on the state) is a legal document issued by a court to prevent an individual from contacting or approaching someone they are alleged to have harmed or threatened. These orders can protect adults or children, and they can be issued on an emergency basis (even the same day in some jurisdictions).
Each state has its own process and terminology. For instance:
- In California, it’s called a “Domestic Violence Restraining Order.”
- In New York, it’s a “Family Court Order of Protection.”
- In Texas, the law outlines “Protective Orders” under the Texas Family Code, Chapter 85.
Despite differences in naming and procedure, the goal is the same everywhere: to keep victims safe and reduce the risk of further harm.
BPA Family Law helps individuals understand their rights under their specific state’s legal system and connects them with attorneys who can quickly act to file the necessary documents, represent them in emergency hearings, and help them feel protected.

Understanding Divorce Laws in Your State
Divorce laws vary dramatically depending on where you live. Some states like California, Texas, and Washington follow community property rules, meaning marital assets are divided 50/50. Others like New York, Florida, or Illinois use equitable distribution, which aims to divide property fairly (but not necessarily equally).
Our attorneys understand the nuances of:
- State-specific grounds for divorce (e.g. irreconcilable differences, abandonment, cruelty, adultery)
- Residency requirements (such as a 6-month minimum in states like California)
- Waiting periods before a divorce can be finalized
- Filing procedures including required disclosures and timelines
If you’re unsure where to file—especially in cases involving multiple residences, military families, or recent moves—our team can help determine the right jurisdiction and walk you through the first steps.
Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce
An uncontested divorce is one in which both parties agree on all significant issues: division of assets, child custody and support, and spousal maintenance. These cases tend to move faster and are less expensive, but even then, having the right attorney ensures nothing gets overlooked and that agreements are legally sound.
On the other hand, a contested divorce involves disagreements which need to be resolved either through negotiation, mediation, or in court. These cases may involve:
- Disputes over business ownership, real estate, or retirement accounts
- Complex financial disclosures
- Custody battles or disagreements over parenting time
- Allegations of abuse, infidelity, or hidden assets
BPA Family Law’s attorneys are prepared to skillfully negotiate and litigate to protect your interests.


Separation as an Alternative
Some couples choose legal separation instead of divorce. This option may allow individuals to live apart while maintaining benefits such as shared insurance coverage or religious considerations. Not all states recognize legal separation (such as Texas), while others (like New Jersey or Washington) offer formal court-approved agreements.
Legal separation can cover:
- Division of assets and debts
- Temporary spousal or child support
- Custody and visitation arrangements
- Maintenance of legal marital status for health care or tax purposes
BPA Family Law helps you understand whether separation is a viable, strategic step in your state, and what long-term implications it may carry.
High-Conflict or Complex Divorces
Not all divorces are straightforward. When emotions run high or when there’s a significant imbalance of power—financial, emotional, or otherwise—having a strong, empathetic advocate matters.
We regularly support individuals in:
- Divorces involving domestic violence or protective orders
- Situations with parental alienation, custody interference, or relocation requests
- Cases with hidden assets or forensic accounting requirements
- Divorce after long-term marriages with intertwined finances and retirement savings
- LGBTQ+ divorces involving adoption, surrogacy, or prior legal inconsistencies across states
Attorneys in our network approach these cases with care and strategic insight, helping clients feel supported and informed every step of the way.


Spousal Maintenance (Alimony)
Spousal support laws differ from state to state. Some states use fixed formulas (like Colorado), while others grant courts broad discretion (like New York or Georgia). Temporary (pendente lite) support may be awarded while the case is ongoing, with long-term or rehabilitative support determined later.
Factors often considered include:
- Length of the marriage
- Income and earning capacity of both spouses
- Contributions made to the household (including unpaid domestic or caregiving work)
- Age, health, and employability of each spouse
- Any history of abuse or financial control
Your attorney will help you understand what is typical in your state—and what’s fair based on your unique circumstances.

Helping You Take the Next Step—With Clarity
Going through a divorce is rarely easy, but it doesn’t have to be chaotic or confusing. BPA Family Law exists to take the stress out of finding the right legal help when you need it most. After a brief, confidential consultation, we match you with a qualified divorce attorney licensed in your state—someone who knows how your courts work and who understands the emotional and legal complexities of your situation. You deserve more than just legal advice. You deserve someone who truly listens.
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